It's another day... another day closer to where you want to be in life. Moments like this make you wonder; who you will be on the same day in a couple of years. Will all your efforts pay off, will the struggle now really produce the easy going care free life.
I had someone very close to me say that " What ifs get you no where" do not wonder about the what-ifs in a situation, you need to tell yourself that:
" This is it, there are no what-ifs here, I know where I want to be in life and I will get there"
Do not ever forget who you are in the process and do not let the pain of yesterday and those believed failures effect you. They were lessons, moments of realization that are needed now and then.
No one is perfect, we all have our demons and I'm not here to tell you to go and find trouble; but experience life, let life unveil itself to you but do not stand around when your intervention is needed.
Our decisions do not define us or make us, we decide how those decisions effect us, whether they be positive or negative. But no circumstance can alter our destiny, it is written how it is written by God. You might have detours, but the story stays the same. We make choices and though we do not decide the outcome, we choose how we react and take the outcome; whether it be in your favour or not.Society should never say who you are as a person and it should never be the underlying reason for a decision. I am Me and my thoughts and my decision are based off of my judgment. Society feels the need to tell people how to think and what is considered normal.
My normal is what i say it is and if that is Abnormal in this twisted world then heyyy " who asked you?!" is what I really have to say.
What the world does not understand is that every situation has its pros and cons; we have to CHOOSE what we look at and embrace; but i sit here and ask you
"do you really have to choose one or the other...what if i don't want to, what if i see it a different way"
I do see it a different way, Pros are what you have been conditioned to look for but i see my cons as my strength, its not going to break me down but show me where i need to improve, show me my weakness, show me what this world doesn't want me seeing as positive. I will use my weakness against the obstacles because the obstacles know my strength and know how to counteract.
Because I know how to see both as ways for me to evolve, no con is my set back but another step up. If you see it as a set back it will be a set back. You take it as a heart break, it will be a heart break. Take what the world sees as a problem as a progressive step up. Your car broke down on the highway but you survived that car pile up 1km away; He was more interested in your friend then you, well now you can invest more in yourself, date yourself, not be the one getting cheated on.
You need to stop seeing the world, how you're expected to see it and perceive it your way! IMAGINE and LIVE your wonders, embrace your pros and cons as step ups, new ways to level up your evolution.
BE THE ULTIMATE YOU! Don't be an earthling, Be an Alien.
